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Hola,
Our BBQ/Milonga on 9/30/05 at
Margie's Secret Garden was a total success. We want to thank
everyone sincerely for all your help in making this a successful
event. The evening was lovely and we were all very happy,
although somewhat tired, but it was all well worth it. We
marinated the chicken all night long and I prepared the "cabrito"
which B brought us, I used an exquisite recipe. By the way I had a request from several of our tangueros
regarding this recipe, which I gladly gave to them.
Friends, everything cpmes out delicious when you make it with
lots of love and care, you literally "lick your
fingers". Thanks to our dear friend Fiacro Salazar for
bring us a bottle of Tequila Don Julio Reposado to share, he helped us the days before and after the Milonga.
We cannot forget our handsome friend Rogelio Trejo, who was
kind enough to come to Margie's home the night before and helped
Cecilio decorate the patio with a huge beautiful pinata, papel
picado decorations, Chinese lanterns, and torches spread
throughout Margie's garden brick walkways, he also assembled
chairs and tables throughout the backyard. Rogelio was also very
generous bringing us a bottle of Tequila Corralejo which was
also consumed by the guests. When I say, thank you my
FRIENDS, I really mean F R I E N D S ! I would also like to give
my most sincere thanks to Sra. Margie Valdes-Shick, who worked
very hard, in 105' temperature, watering, cleaning and
fussing with her many flowers, hoping to make this an
unforgettable evening, which undoubtedly it was, judging from
the many aahs and oohs from all the admiring guests. I must not
forget Sr. Cecilio Martinez who was there ready to help in any
way we needed him. I thank God for giving me such true friends
in San Antonio. I would also like to thank
Virginia and Alvin for sitting at the entrance greeting all of
our guests with a big smile and collecting tickets, etc. They
are truly the best. Mil besos to Frank Huddleston who made time
in his busy study schedule to help with the music. And finally, thanks to all of you who
attended our BBQ Milonga helping us make this a very happy and
successful event. Saturday, Oct. 8th was our Milonga at
Jazzercise. There were very few Tangueras, but plenty of
Tangueros. We, the few tangueras that were there, enjoyed
dancing tango till 1:00 A.M. as there were plenty of Tangueros to
dance with! The buffet table as usual was beautiful, decorated
with a huge bouquet of gorgeous flowers from Margie's Secret
Garden and illuminated with many little candles. And of course,
our ever present bottle of Tequila, brought to us by Mr. Fiacro
Salazar. I must say I had never tasted this particular tequila
(and I have tasted many!). It was absolutely delicious, the
name of it is BUSCADORES. Prepare your- selves tangueros! Well, I wait for you at our next Milonga for a
toast with a good tequila shot.
The Annual Halloween Bash was
fun, this year it was a Circa 1900. Rita Rey won first place for the best costume and Judith
Foster second... The prizes were tickets to the Posada Milonga,
And by the way, have you got your tickets yet? Advance sales are till Dec. 1... you can
save by buying now... contact me ASAP there is only have
seating for so many. So don't delay.
Te`veo en
una
milonga !
Norma
norma@lavidatango.com
Hola Readers.... 
Eric is back with a new column
and
subject. Oh and ladies just because it says Men's doesn't mean there
isn't a wealth of goodies for us in there too...
tu hermana tango...B
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Hello
again tangueros/as...
I got tired of trying to get my
computer to publish .mp3 files to my website. It took me
6 hrs to make it work half-ass last month. So I decided to take a break from
the Tango Music Chronicle and start something new: a
Men’s Tango Technique Editorial. Why? Well, women have entire web-pages
devoted to women’s technique/ embellishments and I
noticed that although it usually takes a lot longer for a man to learn a tango figure
than it does for a woman (well we have to lead, don’t
we?), us guys don’t quite have the “web support group” we deserve.
*
Given that I have already said a lot just to introduce
the editorials and cover my derriere :-), this editorial
will be a short one devoted to
voleos. First, the definition of voleo (taken from very
informal dictionary of tango, VOLEO noun, pronounced BOLEO in English)
Argentine
tango movement involving a pivot in one direction,
followed by a pivot in the other direction (counter-pivot). The invention of this
movement is credited to Carlos Alberto Estevéz (a.k.a.
Petroleo).
The voleo can be done by the woman or by the man. You
could even lead the woman to do a voleo, while doing one
yourself. You can lead/do a front voleo (voleo adelante) or a back voleo (voleo
atras) or any combination thereof. There is no such
thing as a “line voleo” (in my opinion anyway) what many instructors try to
“market” as a line voleo is actually nothing more
than a kick (patada). There is nothing wrong with
leading/ doing a patada as long as you
have a hugh amount of room to do it, and you don't mind
people frowning at you because it's not very social. The patada
involves no pivot/counter-pivot combination, which means
that it’s not a voleo. OK, I am burying myself in semantics now.
When doing/leading the voleo,the person who actually
does the voleo (usually, but not necessarily the woman)
may elect to raise the
free leg. That is optional and the height at which the
leg is raised depends on the intensity of the lead, on
the space available (please do not AX your dancing neighbor), on the music, and on
the overall mood of the person doing the voleo.
The free leg can be raised in a circular manner (with the free knee as the
center of the circle) or along a straight line.
Personally, I far prefer the circular voleo.
Since, the voleo is a pivot/counter -pivot combination;
it does NOT involve a weight change for the woman after
completion of the voleo (strictly speaking). Very often, women do a voleo on
their right foot and then automatically switch their
weight to their left foot just because they instinctively expect the next move to be a
front ocho. Guys, remember to lead the weight
change if your want her to do it. Don’t just expect that “she’ll know what to
do”… because that weight change is simply not
mandatory, it’s just widely taught. Dare to be
different! Ladies, remember that weight changes are
lead, you can embellish the tango all you want, but
changing your weight BEFORE the lead for it comes is
like dancing on your own.
One last thing, I did not mention WHERE the voleo is
lead from. That was a voluntary omission. Since the
voleo is nothing but a
pivot/counter-pivot combination, it follows that a voleo
can be lead/ done at any moment during the tango.
Remember this guys! You don't have to always lead the voleo from the back ocho, you
can lead/do it anywhere and at any- time! Try it! It will
greatly expand your tango figures arsenal with very little effort.
Keep the
questions coming,
I love them!
Hasta la proxima tanda,. . tango
on friends!
Eric Lanoix
Email eric@tangotango.us
with questions, visit www.tangotango.us
*Disclaimer
... Please note that in this and all future
editorials, terms like man, guys, etc are used to denote
the leader and woman,
ladies, etc designates the follower. I am in no way
suggesting that only men should lead and only women
should follow. I simply use such
terms to ease reading. I also want to remind everyone
that in the learning stages, leading involves a certain
degree of macho-ness traditionally associated with men, while following
involves a certain degree of sensitivity traditionally
associated with women. I actually encourage people to practice both roles to gain a deeper
knowledge of tango. But when dancing at a milonga, men
usually lead and women usually follow…
Ask
Maleva!
Dear Maleva, I'm a
beginner, and recently went to Montreal to check out the milonga
scene. I mostly just sat and watched, and enjoyed a semi-private
lesson before the milonga at a practica with an excellent
teacher. But, when people, really good dancers whose style I
really admired did come and ask me to dance, I would say always
yes, since I'm anything but shy, but I would ALWAYS warn them
upfront that I'm a beginner. And, to my surprise, they would
dance the way they normally dance and I felt that I was led into
things that were above me, that I either (a) didn't understand
(like ocho cortado, which I know now, since I subsequently
learned it in a class or where the leader slides my foot over,
then waits for me to slide his foot back) or (b) were badly led
(like a *badly* led gancho, one that I couldn't feel with my
thigh). I also felt that I would get moved too fast without
enough warning, not enough signal for me to lean forward
slightly in order to push off more with my supporting leg; and
so I would often lose my balance. In sum, with these "one
dance" guys it just didn't FEEL right, we didn't connect.
This is my question: is this a question of me being a *bad*
follower, or just a question of incompatibility or them being
bad leads, i.e. not reading me, feeling where I am? Is an appropriate analogy here similar to the fact that I won't like
everyone's personality, that I'll click better with some people
than with others? Is it the same way with dancing? I'll like
dancing with some people better than with others? One of my
friends who dances a lot says that it's not my inability to do
colgadas and more advanced moves and improvisation, but rather
my posture, how I hold myself that's un- pleasant enough to a
leader to only want one dance. Perhaps I'm too heavy, or not
present enough? Perhaps I'm not relaxed enough? Any
insights?
Cheers, One Hit Wonder
Dear One Hit Wonder,
I would say that the biggest things that make a follower nice to
dance with are being relaxed and having good balance. Of course,
these things are interrelated with other qualities, for instance
you must have nice posture in order to be on balance and a
comfortable embrace will make you feel more relaxed. Sometimes
when I dance with a beginner in a class and she is very relaxed
I will forget myself and try to lead a turn or ochos before she
knows how. It is easy for someone to feel more advanced than
they are if they are very relaxed. Try not to tense up and
remember to breathe. For balance, I think that practicing ochos
is one of the very best exercises. When I was learning, I would
go into the stairwell at my office whenever I got bored (which
was often) and holding onto the banister in the landing I would
practice ochos with 180 degree pivots, forward, then back. I
must have done thousands of ochos in that spot; there's probably
a figure 8 burned into the floor there! The biggest things that
make a follower not-as-nice to dance with are being heavy, off
balance, and hard to 'steer'. If you are guilty of any or God
forbid, all of these things you just may hear 'thank you' after
1 dance. I think that most likely you are just inexperienced and
therefore missed a lot of leads and the guys didn't have the
patience for this. (Although if you warned them you were a
beginner they should have been sensitive to this and not led
ganchos etc. on you.) Lots of practice and more lessons will
take care of this. And yes, there will always be people you find
more compatible and the funny thing is that the more you dance,
the people you once had a hard time connecting with will
suddenly become your favorite dancers and the people you once
loved dancing with may suddenly seem hard to dance with. It
always changes. Also, from your description, it sounds like you
might have to take care that you don't wind up falling into the
'heavy' category. Being heavy has absolutely nothing with your
actual weight. Some of the biggest ladies are the lightest.
There are a couple of ways to feel heavy to your partner: a.
Pressing forward into your partner with your muscles to give him
'resistance' and a feeling of connection. Make sure your
connection or compression, is totally relaxed and a result of
surrendering a fraction of your weight towards your partner (not
so much you are off your axis). Do not press into the floor with
your legs or feet to get this slight pressure. As one of my
first tango teachers would say, 'Ladies, release the brakes!' b.
Taking too long to prepare for the steps or interpret his leads.
You must be very light on your feet and react without thinking.
You shouldn't have to take time to make an adjustment before
taking the step. Try to step at the same time as him instead of
lagging behind him, and don't let his chest get away from you,
especially in turns. Don't make him drag you with his arms, you
should be right there with him. c. Failing to push off
your standing leg to get yourself to your own axis. If you make
the leader push you on top of your own leg you are making him do
the work for two, and you will also have less control over your
balance. You know best where your axis is, so put yourself
there. d. Waiting for the leader to put you onto the beat
instead of stepping there yourself. You are listening to the
music too and if you step on the beat yourself you will feel
like you are dancing with him, not slightly behind him. This is
also a big factor in feeling 'musical' to the leader. e.
Not having good balance so the leader has to literally catch you
and hold you up after almost every step. f. Pulling down
with either or both arms, i.e. hanging around his neck like a
weight or not supporting the weight of your own right arm.
Dancing with a 'heavy' follower is uncomfortable by the end of 1
song and literally painful by the end of a tanda, so many
leaders will choose to end the tanda early.
Ask Maleva is
published courtesy of
www.close-embrace.com
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MUST ALL THE CHAMPIONS BE ARGENTINEANS EVERY YEAR?
by Orlando Budini |

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First I would like to
extend many thanks to: Carolina Simon, Alicia Pons, Valeria Zunino,
Pablo Nievas and Carlos Furman.
Chapter Two:
When you start walking
along calle Corrientes from the Obelisco up, you will
find this experience sincerely fascinating. Once you
see those new lights and wider side walks full of little
cafes no one just like to the other (not like we are used to
seeing in Texas), book-stores and marquesines, theaters and
famous restaurants the least you can do is to admire
this avenida which in its best years of splendor, was
called "The street that never sleeps" because
today she is desperely fighting ...with the big help of
EL TANGO... to go back to those years after a "long
and pain full time of sleeping". Buenos Aires had just
finished the "III Tango Dance World
Championship" and I need it to talk to the General
Production Manager at the Festival's production office
"Teatro San Martin" in calle Corrientes. For the third consecutive year from its inauguration,
once again two couples of Argentines dancers won the two
titles (Salon Tango and Stage Tango) of Tango World's
Champions.

Photo courtesy of Carlos Furman
Once I entered the elevator to the eight
floor I could not help to remember the first time I was
here 2 years before when I decided that tangueros from
Texas and USA deserved, as well as any other tango
dancers, the opportunity to be participants in the 2004
edition of the world wide championship at that time, so
I presented myself to Carolina Simon, a lovely and
typical muchacha portena, and I asked her for the
Festival’s Production Director: "I’m the
Festival Production Director" she replies! After
that we start working with her firm support to select
the first couple to represent Texas and the USA in the
"II World Tango Dance Championship" event that
took place under my direction in Houston/Texas in April
2004 with participants from all over Texas, Mexico and
Arizona. George and Jairelby Furlong from Dallas were
the final champions who represented us, with not very
much luck in Buenos Aires in August of that year (Jorge
Firpo and Aurora Lubiz, jurors at the World Championship
in Buenos Aires, were also our jurors in this Metatango
event). I finally got to the 8th floor, Carolina open
the door with a smile on hers face, she was lunching and
had a very busy schedule so I started my interview on
the spot: Carolina 2 couples of Argentines won the
titles of Champions again: Did we won because we are the
best in tango... or because we are Argentineans?
"Orlando she replied "I’m not a jury so I can
not answer that, but let me tell you that registrations
of Argentines dancers were a lot higher that foreign
dancers. Besides that, the local dancers have a lot of more
chances for training themselves and also in
Buenos Aires there are more than 70 milongas so they have a lot
more opportunity to practice too. Add to this the fact that
tango is an Argentinean dance and you may have the
answer". Do you think Carolina that the Jury being
totally Argentinean is a disadvantage for the foreign
dancers? "Sincerely Orlando she responded, we
really want foreign jurors to be part of this, in fact
Junior Cervilla (one of the panelist) is from
Brazil" Carolina, some tango peoples from
Argentina and abroad think that the Festival has become
a business. For example, the Italian newspaper "Il Corriere
della Sera" under the title of "The Tango
Business: the way Buenos Aires fight the crisis"
reported during those days: "Buenos Aires took in
it's hands the Tango business". Do you think
that Tango has become a big business rather than a big
cultural event like used to be at the beginning?
"Again Orlando, the Festival is not a business is a
Tango celebration and is also an artistic cultural
event. The city has made some arrangement with "La
Academia del Tango" and they manage directly and
through an union, any other business matters, if they
are". When I asked to Pablo Nievas and Valeria
Zunino (2 of the jurors in Cordoba) in between packing for a professional Tango tour to
Europe, if they think that we "won because we are
the best or because we are Argentineans", Valeria
toll me: "Orlando Argentines always may dance
better than anybody else because there is all an history
of tango behind us, but not necessarily because we are
the best ones" Pablo getting in the conversation
with a pair of socks in his hands answer to another
question: Pablito do you think that foreign dancers are
in disadvantage if the jury is all from Argentina?
"I think Orlando, that if Tango was born in
Argentina, there is all a culture behind that very hard
to understand and very hard to transmit, consequently an
Argentine jury is more prepared to do a better judgment
than any other (like a Colombian is better prepared to
judge Salsa)" In the meantime I asked to Alicia Pons.
a very well known, popular and experienced teacher:
Alicia what do you think about the world tango
championship? "Well Orlando I can not think
anything because I do not take part and I do not go to
the events" There is a personal reason for that
Alicia? "I have been invited she replied, for the
city but I enjoy Tango differently, I love for instance
"la semana del tango" when all tangueros got
together in el "Obelisco" and dance and dance
until the morning, this is a real tango celebration and
homage to our cultural heritage" *Last question
Alicia: What do you think about the winners, were they
good enough to be champions? "Again Orlando, I do
not think anything because I' never saw them dancing and
I do not even know them!" On the other hand Junior
Cervilla (the foreign juror) who, answering to
Carolina's previous assessment, was born in Brazil but
has been living and dancing in Buenos Aires for over 10
years, stated at an interview: All the jury,
unanimously decided for the selection of the champions
not for their rehearsed steps or nationality, but for
their embrace and their way of dancing. I can see thought out
all my interviews and questions that there
are many tangueros from Buenos Aires that do not take
part of the championship (there is a group in and a
group out). I could not help to remember either my own
experience as producer of the first World Tango Dance
Championship in Texas when I asked the question " has
Tango become a big business instead a cultural
event" the day when a guy named E. Marmonti from a
company called "Mundial de Tango SA" asked me
for the "not very much Cultural" amount of
U.S. $ 5.000 (five thousand dollars)
per year as an annual fee to continue to do the Tango
Dance Festival selection in Texas. On the other answers
to my questions and as an old worldwide tanguero, I will accept the fact that
Argentineans won the championships because we have a lot more
participants enrolled. It makes a lot of sense, but I
will not accept that we won because we are better
prepared, we have more milongas or because we have a
history of tango. Our best teachers and milongueros have
been introducing, teaching and training these foreign
guys all over the world for the last 15 years or more, not only in steps or styles but even in history and
culture of tango, some of those participants may even
know more than we do! The Championship is over, foreign
dancers had gone back to their countries, the streets
and milongas of Buenos Aires are missing the noise and
enthusiasm of thousand of tangueros speaking Italian, English, Japanese, French or
Russian. Many questions had
been asked and many of them had been answered, however
there is still a remaining of doubts and uncertainties
around. Of course to lose has never been easy for the
losers but I worry myself as an Argentine, about that
very fine line that exist in between being fare and
being protective! Had we, without even thinking about
it, tilted the scale to the wrong side? Let's review
this with all our Argentine and tangueros heart... for
the good of EL TANGO!
Until next time, Orlando
Contact Orlando Budini at orlandobudini@yahoo.com
Visit his web site http://metatango.com/index.html
*If you missed Chapter
One check the link at the top of the page
for La Vida Tango Archives and find the
October 2005 issue listed in the directory.
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Ney
Melo on Etiquette
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Do's
and
Don'ts of Inviting :
Part
Two
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Introduction:
I have been thinking about writing this article for a long time,
after having experienced many humorous and not-so-humorous
episodes at the milonga. Many of us get caught up in learning
the steps of the tango and then we get to the milonga and we
don't know that there are certain unwritten rules about inviting
and accepting or declining dances. While the 'cabeceo' - or
inviting people to dance with eye contact and a nod - is alive
and well in Buenos Aires, we live in North America and as such
our customs have to adapt. (It would be great if the cabeceo
were used here because it empowers both men and especially women
to dance with the partners they most want to dance with. But the
thing is, the cabeceo only works when everyone does it.)
Therefore, I've put together a list of "rules" that,
if somewhat adhered to, will make the milonga enjoyable for men
and ladies alike. continued from last week...
6) THE TANDA DJ will usually play 3 or 4 songs of the same
orchestra or style followed by a one minute cortina. This
"set" is called a tanda. It is only when we want to
stop dancing with our partner that we say "thank you".
Do not make the mistake of saying "thank you" after
every tango. Try to wait until the end of the tanda. If we do
not wait until the end, then we are conveying a message. Here is
a quick breakdown of the "messages": We danced 4
songs: That was nice/ I enjoyed it/ Let's do it again in the
near future, etc. etc. We danced 3 songs: It was ok/ Sorry, my
feet hurt/ Yikes! My ride home is leaving, gotta go! We danced 2
songs: I've humored you long enough/ You need to take more
lessons/ I thought the first bad tango was my fault, but now I
see that its your fault We danced 1 song: It's just not
happening/ Maybe you should just sit and watch for a while/
Please don't ask me to dance at this milonga again I truly
believe that when women start using their power of declining
dances and sending messages, then that is when the leaders will
start working to improve their dance. It has to be a system of
checks and balances. If we allow mediocre leaders to dance with
amazing followers and vice versa, then why would they want to
get better? I remember an argument that a friend and I had a
long time ago. She was upset because a horrible leader basically
manhandled her for a whole tanda and made her look and feel bad.
I witnessed the whole thing and I didn't like what this leader
did, but I also didn't like that my friend was too nice not to
end the carnage early!! Ladies, please use your power to say
"no" to bad dances. It is better to sit all night,
enjoy the music, and have a good conversation than to be dragged
around the milonga floor like Hector was by Achilles after being
slain in the movie "Troy". There were many times in my
tango infancy that I was rejected by good followers. I never
took it personally. It only served to make me better. I'm not
saying you shouldn't dance with beginners. Everyone should do a
dance or two with beginners at the milonga and look at it as
'community service' and make them feel welcome. But there is a
difference between a beginner, and a bad dancer who just never
'gets it'. There are a number of guys at any given milonga who
have been dancing for a long time, they maul the ladies, and
they never have any incentive to get better because they get all
the dances they want anyway.
7) BE NICE Rejection is tough to accept. Feeling can be easily
hurt. Please take this into consideration when rejecting
someone. It might help to approach it as though you are going to
break up with someone, making sure not to hurt their feelings
but yet not giving them hope for a reunion. For example:
"Sorry, its not you its me" "Look, I am not in a
good place right now, I want to just be alone for a while"
"I just want you to be happy" "You deserve
better" "I know we danced last night, but that was
then, this is now" For the rejected just accept it and
move on. It doesn't help to reply: "But why?"
"Just tell me why" "Give me one good reason"
"I can change" "Look, I'll be right here. Let me
know if things change" "But I thought we meant
something" "You suck"
8) TRADING This is when leaders or followers end the tanda early
and then finish it off with someone else. This is bad business.
What makes it worse is that in order to facilitate this trade,
one usually has to make eye contact and cut a deal with the new
partner while still on the dance floor with the original
partner! I've seen this happen at the milonga and all I can say
is that this is "shady, shady, shady". Like I
mentioned in rule # 5: Invitations to dance should happen during
the cortinas (the minute of ambient music that is played between
the tandas).
9) THE "DANCE WITH ME NOW" CARD Every now
and then I will be invited by a lady to dance and I will
politely refuse because I will be in the process of doing
something that prevents me from dancing with her at the moment
(getting a drink, taking a rest, on my way to the bathroom to
change shirts, etc. etc.) This is when the lady will sometimes
pull out the "dance with me now" card by saying
"But I'm leaving the milonga in 5 minutes". This makes
me uncomfortable because now I feel pressured to dance with her
right then and there. What makes matters worse is when I do
succumb to the pressure, I dance with the person, and the person
DOES NOT LEAVE THE MILONGA! I think a lot of people agree with
me when I say that if you are going to use the "dance with
me now" card by claiming that you are about to leave, then
I better not see you at the coat rack at the same time as me at
the end of the night. Also, resist the urge to use excessive
force when asking for a dance, ie grabbing your target and
dragging him or her to the floor while exclaiming "Let's
dance! Let's dance!" You should give the other person a
choice of whether or not to dance with you, being polite and civilized
about it. Bottom line: The dance is not enjoyable if
the inviter (male or female) pressures the invitee. People want
to dance out of pleasure, not duty.
10) THE BARE FOOT "WHITE FLAG" Because rejection can
be hard to take, one method devised by some ladies of
communicating to the men that they are not accepting invitations
at the moment is to take their shoes off. This serves as 'proof'
that they really are taking a break, should anyone ask them. All
they have to do is raise up the bare foot 'white flag'. They can
rest the balls of their feet from those 4 inch heels and not get
hassled by potential dance partners. (On the flip side, they can
also make a guy feel great if they do decide to dance when asked
and say 'let me put my shoes back on for you'.)
11) BE PERCEPTIVE Pay attention to your potential partner's body
language when you are getting ready to ask them for a dance.
There are non-verbal signals that you should try to clue in to.
Gentlemen, if you are headed towards a woman and she sees you
and quickly turns away, reaches down to fiddle with her shoe
strap, digs in her purse endlessly - it means she DOESN'T WANT
TO DANCE. If she even jumps up and heads for the ladies room,
don't pursue her and grab her shoulder as she flees thinking
'maybe she didn't see me'. If she notices you and maintains eye
contact, or smiles, or waves, or in general looks pleased that
you are headed her way, then by all means ask her! If you are
not sure, go over and say hello, and judge by her reaction
whether she wants to dance. You can look around the room as well
and guess which people are wanting to dance. If they are sitting
or standing right by the dance floor, looking intently and
wistfully at the dancers, looking around to catch the attention
of potential partners, etc, then they are most certainly
available. If they are sitting with all their attention focused
on their companion, deep in conversation, eating, enjoying a
drink and looking otherwise very comfortable where they are,
approach with caution. See if you can catch their eye. If they
look away, then save your invitation for later. Yes, this is a
version of the cabeceo. If someone is in the midst of an
animated conversation, do not hang around in the periphery of
their vision, tapping your foot, waiting for the split-second
when they pause for breath to interject your invitation. Ask
someone else.
12) ASK PERMISSION Maybe some people will think this is very
old-fashioned but I think it is nice: When you approach a couple
who are dating or married and they are sitting together, it is
nice to 'ask permission' of the other when you want to ask one
of them to dance. Often it is the man asking the other man for
'permission' to dance with his lady. This is not because the man
'owns' the woman or because the woman needs her date's
permission. It is simply showing the courtesy of acknowledging
the other human at the table when you come to take their
companion away. I think it is rude to come up to a couple and
ask one person without even saying 'hello' or 'excuse me' or
'may I?' to the other. This rule of course only applies if the
couple is actually seated together. And this rule also applies
to women asking permission of another woman to dance with her
man. Ladies, if a gentleman is standing with his arm around his
significant other and you come up and ask him, make sure to
greet both people, don't just grab him and drag him away. Yes,
this happens, and yes it is rude.
Most of these rules may seem like they shouldn't need to be laid
out, but you would be surprised. Anytime someone violates these
rules, its because they are letting their ego get the best
of them. In the end, we are all tango music lovers and we all
love to dance, and we all must learn to get along at the
milonga. Being aware of, sensitive to, and in tune with another
person are what partner dancing is all about. Use these skills
off the dance floor as well as on.
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*If you
missed Part One check the link at the of the page for La
Vida Tango Archives and find the October 2005 issue listed
in the directory.
Hola Tangueros,
How has everyone been?
Have you been learning new steps, refining old ones, and
brushing up on techniques in preparation for the upcoming
Fandango happening in Austin, Texas during the Thanksgiving
holidays? Well if not it’s not too late to get started.
On them party scene, Norma Valdez, one of San Antonio’s
biggest supporters of tango, just had her annual Halloween Tango
Celebration at the fabulous Circa 1900, located at 1900 San
Pedro here in San Antonio, Texas. Any ghoul who was a ghoul appeared
and disappeared at this yearly festivity. If you weren’t there
you missed a really fantastic occasion. The event had great
music provided by our own Daniel Monserrat who seldom fails to
amaze the tango crowd with his selection of music that he plays
for their auditory senses. Of course, Circa1900 provides
appetizing food and fine wines for any one needing refreshment.
It was great fun to see some of the tango dancers you know come
dressed in Halloween garb. Some of the costumes were
interesting, some risqué and some just unusual, but it all
added up to an exciting evening where people allowed
themselves to be creative and have a magical moment. The night was haunted
by Rene, the ghost of memories past, but in general a wonderful
time was had by all even the lonely ghouls.
Until next time keep the tango fever alive,
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The 2005 Halloween contestants at
Circa, Rita Rey (4th from the right) was the winner.
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Sonia and Rogelio cutting up for the
camera
with Daniel Monserrat entertaining.
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Frank, Kathy and Doc Ninja
All Photo's by R. Montejano
Contact Roy at
r.montejano@grandecom.net
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BUENOS
AIRES CULTURE ON THE WEB
Demoliendo
Tangos: Constructing from rupture
Federico Mizrahi and Luis Longhi
propose a new style which recalls the Café Concert with humour,
the influences of Piazzolla and Argentine rock musician Charly
García, and poems, this Friday at Gandhi, and next summer, with
new shows
By Alejandra
Rodríguez
Like many other Argentines, they discovered tango
after their 30s'; "it is natural", they assert.
Previously, the composer and piano player Federico Mizrahi and
the actor and bandoneon player Luis Longhi enjoyed their
artistic passions on the stage: the former, writing music for
plays and café concert' shows; the latter traveled to Paris
after graduating from La Plata's drama school (his birthplace)
to take lessons with Jorge Lavelli at the Comedie Française.
Therefore, it can be said that the Lighten City saw them being
born as a tango duet.
Mizrahi contributed with
his musical and scenic background which comprises musical
direction for Brecht's, Dolina's and Gambartes' plays; music
composition for the Argentine playwright Villanueva Cosse and
the Spanish movie director Pilar Távora. Longhi added up
bandoneon lessons with master Rodolfo Mederos to his acting
experience and took part of the tango quintet Tangata Rea during
six years. Together, they created Demoliendo Tangos in 1999, a
café concert's show which became their first CD in 2001 and has
being performed at Buenos Aires' stages for the last three
years. Besides, this year they produced a new show,
Tangoservicio Tararira, along with dancer and bandoneon player
Julio Zurita. And they already plan a second CD, at the moment
titled Carne Argenta, which they hope to release next March,
after summer performances at The Cavern (Paseo La Plaza), every
Saturday, since January 17.
They look just as they
sound: hyperactive, enthusiastic, creative, tireless. Demoliendo
Tangos show was born during their spare time when they were
working separately in Paris, and it became the name of a duet
that has been working together for the last four years. They put
together Mizrahi's new tangos and Longhi's texts to recreate the
café concert's old spirit. 
They were both born in
the 60s', when Café Concert was in vogue, and were musically
influenced by Charly García (Argentine rock musician) and
Piazzola's rupture. The show goes from humor to poetry, and
Tango, which sometimes demonstrates certain rock influence. Like
the "foundational" theme Demoliendo Tangos, a
title that unfailing and premeditatedly recalls Garcia's Demoliendo
hoteles. According to Longhi, the texts' author, Demoliendo
Tangos is "dedicated to Piazzolla, the great
demolisher, who destroyed every obstacle in his way to construct
his own path using the bricks he could rescue from his own
demolition. And at the same time, we grew up listening to Charly
(García)."
Music gives rise to the
words through monologues, humorous dialogues and poems, but
"respectfully, we do without a singer", Longhi
comments. "Assembling and taking apart -he says-,
constructing with two or three tangos at a time, as in a
collage, like our version of El Marne, with an introduction of
Garcia's notes, for example." A collage that is also
present in the designs of CD covers, posters, and website; as if
they were a rock band.
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